10
Apr
Why women can’t stay bff’s for long..
Absolutely agree! But its still sad :(
I don’t know about you, but most of my friends come from an all-boys or an all-girls (secondary) school and until now, the boys are still tight together, and are still hanging out. As for the girls, most of them fell-out along the way and are only capable of giving each other rude stares when they ran into one another or do the fake air kiss, “how have you been *giggle* i’ve not seen you for a while *giggle giggle*” and then as soon as their backs are turned, “OMG, she was such a bitch in school, she slept with blah blah…”. So this is my theory: girls can’t stay friends forever because we are just too bitchy by nature. That’s just the way we are. Even Paris & Nicole broke up. One way or another, no matter how BFF you claim to be with each other, something somewhere happens along the way and you WILL fall out. And more often than not, it’s due to petty reasons (like boys). Girls have a love-hate relationship with one another, it’s in-built in our system.
Now, while guys are big on “let’s just punch each other silly on the spot and after that we can all move on with our lives” mindset, girls have this tiny teeny bad habit called REVENGE. Shakespeare sure as hell wasn’t kidding around when he wrote that phrase. I may not come from an all-girls school, but i’ve seen my fair share of these happening. And i got to say, when push comes to shove, we are capable of being the most conniving, most scheming and most ruthless piece of meat walking around on planet earth.
So men, don’t be deceived. Sometimes girls, only like to pretend we are weak, but in reality, we are much much stronger in our minds than you’d like to believe. Yes we are also sweet, we cry when we upset, we need your help in a lot of things, and we can be the most loving of wife and girlfriend. But really, don’t try.